INFORMATION NEEDED AT THE TIME OF DEATH

 

·        Inform family members of the existence and location of the document.  File in an

  accessible place at home, as well as in your church office, preferred funeral home,

  and/or with a close family member or members.

 

Date of information ________________________________________________________

 

Family Information

Husband’s Name _________________________________________________________

 

            Address ___________________________________________________________

 

            Birthdate:  Month/Day/Year _____________________________________________

 

            Birthplace __________________________________________________________

 

            (Death Date if applicable ______________________________________________)

 

            Occupation _________________________________________________________

 

            Date of Marriage _____________________________________________________

 

            Place of Marriage ____________________________________________________

 

·        Husband’s Father’s Name ____________________________________________

 

            Father’s Place of Residence if surviving ___________________________________

 

            (Father’s Death Date if applicable _______________________________________)

 

·        Husband’s Mother’s Maiden Name ______________________________________

 

            Mother’s Place of Residence if surviving ___________________________________

 

            (Mother’s Death Date if applicable _______________________________________)

 

Wife’s Name (including maiden name) _________________________________________

 

            Address ____________________________________________________________

 

            Birthdate:  Month/Day/Year ______________________________________________

 

            Birthplace ___________________________________________________________

 

            (Death Date if applicable _______________________________________________)

 

            Occupation __________________________________________________________

 

·        Wife’s Father’s Name _________________________________________________

 

            Father’s Place of Residence if surviving ____________________________________

 

            (Father’s Death Date if applicable ________________________________________)

 

·        Wife’s Mother’s Maiden Name __________________________________________

 

            Mother’s Place of Residence if surviving ____________________________________

 

            (Mother’s Death Date if applicable ________________________________________)

 

Children (names, addresses, phone numbers, date of death if applicable)

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

Number of Grandchildren: ________________  Great Grandchildren: _________________

 

Brothers and Sisters (names, spouses, addresses, phone numbers, date of death if applicable)

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

            ____________________________________________________________________

 

Other Information

·        List specifics about location of will, whom to notify, suggested charities for memorial

  gifts, etc. on a separate page if necessary

 

 

 

 

 

 

Funeral Information for ______________________________________________________________________

 

Funeral Home preferred:

 

__________________________________________________________________________

 

            Address and Phone Number:

 

_________________________________________________________________

 

            Advance Plans? ___________________________________________________________________________

 

Suggested form of service filed?  _________     If yes, where is it located?

 

____________________________________

 

            If no form is filed, complete the information below:

 

Do you prefer burial? ________   Name of cemetery:

 

_____________________________________________________

 

            Location of cemetery:

 

________________________________________________________________________

           

            Burial Plot: Block _______________ Section ______________ Lot ________________ No. of graves _________

 

            Lot Owner: _________________________________________ Phone No. _______________

 

            If you have no burial plot, indicate cemetery of choice (name of cemetery and location):

 

            __________________________________________________________________________

 

Cremation? ____________

 

If you prefer cremation, suggest disposal of ashes:

 

_________________________________________________

 

If you prefer organ or total body donation, please give specifics:

 

            _________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            _________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            _________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            _________________________________________________________________________________________

 

SUGGESTIONS FOR FUNERAL/MEMORIAL SERVICE

            Name of Minister(s) preferred (include contact information):

           

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Location for service (church or elsewhere):

           

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Suggested Organist (include contact information):

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Suggested Soloist or Choir or Musical Group (include contact information):

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Suggested Pall Bearers (include contact information):

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Honorary Pall Bearers (include contact information):

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Favorite Passages of Scripture: __________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Favorite Poems which might be read or excerpted (attach copies): _______________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Suggested Hymns or Solos (attach copies, especially if not well known): __________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Military Service? _________  If yes, prefer military ceremony? _______________

 

            Special ceremonies at visitation such as Free Masons or Prayer Service? _________________________________

           

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Accomplishments and Honors during lifetime that should be mentioned in obituary or memorial service:

           

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            Special Interests/Priorities you would want mentioned:

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Other Suggestions for your service that would be helpful to your family (donations in lieu of flowers; casket closed

during visitation or service; set maximum amount on expenses to aid family members making selections, etc.):

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

            __________________________________________________________________________________________

 

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