INFORMATION NEEDED AT THE TIME OF DEATH
· Inform family members of the existence and location of the document. File in an
accessible place at home, as well as in your church office, preferred funeral home,
and/or with a close family member or members.
Date of information ________________________________________________________
Family Information
Husband’s Name _________________________________________________________
Address ___________________________________________________________
Birthdate: Month/Day/Year _____________________________________________
Birthplace __________________________________________________________
(Death Date if applicable ______________________________________________)
Occupation _________________________________________________________
Date of Marriage _____________________________________________________
Place of Marriage ____________________________________________________
· Husband’s Father’s Name ____________________________________________
Father’s Place of Residence if surviving ___________________________________
(Father’s Death Date if applicable _______________________________________)
· Husband’s Mother’s Maiden Name ______________________________________
Mother’s Place of Residence if surviving ___________________________________
(Mother’s Death Date if applicable _______________________________________)
Wife’s Name (including maiden name) _________________________________________
Address ____________________________________________________________
Birthdate: Month/Day/Year ______________________________________________
Birthplace ___________________________________________________________
(Death Date if applicable _______________________________________________)
Occupation __________________________________________________________
· Wife’s Father’s Name _________________________________________________
Father’s Place of Residence if surviving ____________________________________
(Father’s Death Date if applicable ________________________________________)
· Wife’s Mother’s Maiden Name __________________________________________
Mother’s Place of Residence if surviving ____________________________________
(Mother’s Death Date if applicable ________________________________________)
Children (names, addresses, phone numbers, date of death if applicable)
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Number of Grandchildren: ________________ Great Grandchildren: _________________
Brothers and Sisters (names, spouses, addresses, phone numbers, date of death if applicable)
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Other Information
· List specifics about location of will, whom to notify, suggested charities for memorial
gifts, etc. on a separate page if necessary
Funeral Information for ______________________________________________________________________
Funeral Home preferred:
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Address and Phone Number:
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Advance Plans? ___________________________________________________________________________
Suggested form of service filed? _________ If yes, where is it located?
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If no form is filed, complete the information below:
Do you prefer burial? ________ Name of cemetery:
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Location of cemetery:
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Burial Plot:
Block _______________ Section ______________
If you have no burial plot, indicate cemetery of choice (name of cemetery and location):
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Cremation? ____________
If you prefer cremation, suggest disposal of ashes:
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If you prefer organ or total body donation, please give specifics:
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SUGGESTIONS FOR FUNERAL/MEMORIAL SERVICE
Name of Minister(s) preferred (include contact information):
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Location for service (church or elsewhere):
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Suggested Organist (include contact information):
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Suggested Soloist or Choir or Musical Group (include contact information):
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Suggested Pall Bearers (include contact information):
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Honorary Pall Bearers (include contact information):
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Favorite Passages of Scripture: __________________________________________________________________
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Favorite Poems which might be read or excerpted (attach copies): _______________________________________
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Suggested Hymns or Solos (attach copies, especially if not well known): __________________________________
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Military Service? _________ If yes, prefer military ceremony? _______________
Special ceremonies at visitation such as Free Masons or Prayer Service? _________________________________
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Accomplishments and Honors during lifetime that should be mentioned in obituary or memorial service:
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Special Interests/Priorities you would want mentioned:
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Other Suggestions for your service that would be helpful to your family (donations in lieu of flowers; casket closed
during visitation or service; set maximum amount on expenses to aid family members making selections, etc.):
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